Thursday, January 31, 2013

Until You

Until You by Judith McNaught

Judith McNaught is an author that I really admire. She creates amazing characters.

Like the prequel “Whitney, My Love” this book was good, but a little long and convoluted. In a similar theme, the conflicts were unbelievable and over the top.

This one doesn't make the top of the list in my McNaught favorites. But if you like romance, I recommend trying any of her works (more recent is better).

The God Delusion

The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins

My years of studying religious philosophy has included little (to no) reading about Atheism.

This book is very thought provoking. I don't personally agree with Dawkins, but I found his arguments intriguing.  Definitely makes you ruminate on life and the existence (or lack of) a higher power. It has many prompts toward intellectual discussion for the open minded.

Of course, this book has critics. Attacking religion (which is blatantly what Dawkins is doing) is never going to win a popularity award. But if you read with an open mind, you can enjoy regardless of your own views.

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

The Kommandant's Girl

The Kommandant’s Girl by Pam Jenoff

The plot of "The Kommandant's Girl" is a Jewish woman trying to fit into Nazi society under an assumed identity. I really loved the idea and I found portions to be emotional and engaging.

Then the author lost me. The character development was lacking and the story goes off track. I completely hated the ending. I'm not sure how exactly I wanted it to end, but I felt like it wrapped up in a rush and not to a realistic conclusion.

I expected more from this book and felt disappointed in the end.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Magic Hour

Magic Hour by Kristin Hannah

I have had a lot of recommendations to read Kristin Hannah. This is the first I have read. She writes with a beautiful voice. This story follows a woman during a challenging time in her life and career. She is pulled into a case with a very special child. As she bonds with this little girl everything comes into focus. I thought this was a very emotional story and I plan to read more by Hannah.  

December 1941

December 1941: 31 Days that Changed America and Saved the World by Craig Shirley

I have been interested in reading about American history recently. Continuing on that journey, I picked up this book about the bombing of Pearl Harbor and America's entrance into WWII.

I liked the concept of mixing a description of the culture in America at the time and the military mobilizing. However, even though I liked the concept, I felt the execution could have been better. Moving back and forth was often annoying and confusing.

Overall, this was an informative book, but it was a bit overwhelming. I wouldn't necessarily recommend it.

Monday, January 28, 2013

Lies That Chelsea Handler Told Me

Lies That Chelsea Handler Told Me by...Chelsea Handler's Friends

I have liked all of Chelsea Handler's books. I like her style--outspoken, politically incorrect and snarky. This one was good, too. I would never want to be this woman's friend, however. Friends like this are tiring! She is super needy!!

If you need a good laugh and aren't easily offended, pick up one of Handler's books to unwind!

Aquariums of Pyongyang

Aquariums of Pyongyang: Ten Years in the North Korean Gulag by Chol-hwan Kang

Kang is the first survivor of a North Korean "re-education" camp to tell his story. North Korea is a mysterious nation. Very little is reported about life in North Korea, as they have blocked the world from the borders. Kang gives us a view of Communism at it's worst. He tells his story of suffering and oppression through the eyes of an innocent youth.

I found this memoir sad, chilling and deeply honest. A truly eye-opening account of the North Korean people's plight.

Friday, January 25, 2013

Let's Take the Long Way Home

Let’s Take the Long Way Home by Gail Caldwell

Oh my goodness. Poignant and incredibly moving, Gail Caldwell tells a story of amazing friendship and love. I was truly touched...even shed tears along her journey.

I have only felt this close to two female friends in my life, and both of those friendships were when I was young. One was from preschool through high school and the other was only for a few years during high school. Both of those friendships faded over time and distance. I would love to have a friend like this again. Someone to totally understand me and just "get" me. However, I find building intimate friendships hard as I like to remain emotionally detached. And with a husband and family it is hard to find the time to devote to a building a new, strong friendship. I have a lot of people I consider friends, but not one best friend who I feel I can tell all my secrets too and trust with my feelings.

Caldwell touched on a lot of points that resonated with me from emotional issues, to drinking, to writing.  Loved, loved, loved this one. 

Hangman

Hangman by Faye Kellerman

This was the first Faye Kellerman book I've read. I enjoyed her style. A good recommendation for the suspense fans out there!

Kellerman kept the suspense high. She also developed the characters into complex and engaging people. 

I didn't love the two plots intermingling in this one, but, overall I really liked it and plan to read more by Kellerman.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Truth or Dare

Truth or Dare by Lori Foster

I read one steamy book by Foster that I really enjoyed. After that, I haven't come across another good book by her. This one was really bad. I didn't even finish!!I may have to take her off my list, as it appears the book I really liked is the exception!!

The Nazi Officer's Wife

The Nazi Officer’s Wife: How One Woman Survived the Holocaust by Edith Beer

An amazing memoir. I found Beer's story to be both honest and raw. She made difficult choices during an unimaginable time in history and lived to tell the story.

As a Vienna Jew, she was forced into a ghetto and did time at a labor camp. Her friends were disappearing and her life had turned into a nightmare.  Aided by a strong friend, she changed her identity to escape Nazi detection. Undercover, she met a Nazi Party member and married him. He helped to keep her identity hidden. She had a child with him and continued to live this secret life. When she was finally able, she resumed her real name and proudly told her story.

This is the type of book that sticks with you. The ethics are troubling. I have studied this period in history pretty extensively and it haunts me.

Edith Beer used many resources to survive the unimaginable and I loved the triumph of her spirit over the evils of the time.


 

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

How to Talk to Anyone

How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes

This book was recommended as good for someone focusing on improving communication. Well..."talking" isn't really an issue for me, so I didn't find this book particularly useful. In my opinion, it was a bit generic.

However, if you struggle with communication, especially at work, this book does offer some good tips. For example--someone that doesn't like to network can find some good tips on building that skill. 

Ha! If you know me personally you might find it funny that I even bothered to read a book with this title (It was on the list!). I clearly know how (and often do) talk to ANYONE!

Beyond Religion

Beyond Religion by Dalai Lama

For the spiritually inclined, consider this book by the Dalai Lama. He speaks of compassion and generosity...a life well lived. I found this book to be uplifting and a strong reminder of how I want to live.

One part that touched me is the focus on letting go of negativity. What others think/say has nothing to do with me. I need that reminder as I struggle with this. Focusing on this moment...that is what is important.

Loved it.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Breathing Room

Breathing Room by Susan Elizabeth Phillips
 
I would recommend any of Phillips books. As usual, she is a cut above. Her characters are always well developed and engaging. This wasn't my favorite by Phillips, but I enjoyed it. The downside for me was the "mystery" and the other sub-plot of the married couple; I felt it was too much and was distracting from the main plot. 
 
If you are a romance reader and haven't tried Susan Elizabeth Phillips, please do!

Friday, January 18, 2013

No Easy Day

No Easy Day: The Firsthand Account of the Mission that Killed Osama Bin Laden by Mark Owen

I had mixed feelings on this one. My initial feeling was that this book should not have been written. The security of the United States stands on our military and how they operate. In my opinion, Mark Owen (not his real name, although his real name is now easy to find), had selfish reasons for writing this book. He wanted to capitalize on this particular job, not caring that he put his fellow soldiers in danger. To me, the people in our military represent honor and dignity; I felt Owen showed a lack of these qualities.

Owen reveals what a gigantic ego he has in the telling of “his” story. Only a few pages in you can see that he definitely thinks very highly of himself and that he clearly has issues with authority. He does not like politics, which he makes clear in the book. I found some of his comments to be quite pathetic, honestly. He basically whines, at times, about being “a tool” of the US Government. Last time I checked, the military reports to the US Government? Get over yourself Owen! If he could have left out the jabs at his superiors (yes, they are superior to you Mark Owen), he could have retained a little class.

On the positive side, I did find his story about how he became involved in the military interesting.  But this is a book about Mark Owen, very little is actually about Osama Bin Laden. If he could have left his bitterness out of it, I would have liked it much better.

Basically, this book was over-hyped. I liked it...but I didn't.

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Lover Eternal

Lover Eternal by J.R. Ward

To my surprise, I continue to enjoy this series. Ward has a real talent for creating strong characters with complexities. The vampire stuff is usually not my thing, but Ward has definite talent. She is able to pull me in. She started prepping the reader for the next installment...I think it might be my favorite. The Zsadist character really intrigues me. So excited to read it!

Waiting for Birdy

Waiting for Birdy by Catherine Newman

As a Mother of two, I could relate to this author. Newman writes about the feelings she experienced during her second pregnancy.  

The way I felt the first time I was pregnant was very different from my second pregnancy. A second pregnancy is more complex. The main thought I had was that it wasn't possible to love a second child as much as I loved my first. I honestly thought other Mothers were lying when they said you can feel that same kind of love for a second time. I was worried that I just wouldn't love #2, I was worried about disrupting #1's life. My center had been expanded to include #1, but how could it possibly get bigger?  But then the second baby was born. And I loved him just as fiercely. It's amazing, really. 

Another part of the book I related to was how you feel after you bring the second baby home. I felt on edger, irritable and impatient. Then guilty. Always guilty that I didn't have enough time to spend.

I felt Newman went on a bit too much at times, but overall I really enjoyed this one.  

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Backseat Saints

Backseat Saints by Joshilyn Jackson

The plot of this book centers around domestic violence. I found the plot to be somewhat strange, moving around and not always coherent. At the same time I found portions quite moving.

The strength was that the main character was endearing and engaging. The weakness was the jumping (sometime unbelievable) plot and several loose ends.

I liked it, overall, but didn’t love it.

The Unofficial Guide to Walt Disney World 2013

The Unofficial Guide to Walt Disney World 2013

As a kid, I always wanted to go to Disney World. It was the ultimate fantasy land. I never got the chance to go. As a parent, I've been feeling like I should plan a trip for my own children. With that in mind, I picked up this book and...wow, holy overwhelming! If a vacation requires an 800 page travel guide, I think it might not be the kind of vacation I would like. I have moved Disney from the top 5 vacation list after reading all the effort it takes!! I'm more into relaxing vacation full of quality family time and less chaos.

However, if you do want to make a Disney trip, I think this guide is perfect for breaking down the places you need to see. I especially liked the end, where there are different plans for each type of tourist.

If I move it back up on the list, I will definitely pick up this guide again.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Answering 911

Answering 911: Life in the Hot Seat by Caroline Burau

Ever wondered what being a 911 Dispatcher would be like? If so, Burau's book is enlightening. She gives details on the stressful job of taking emergency calls.

I thought the stories would be more dramatic, so I was a little disappointed. But this was, overall, an interesting book to read.

Monday, January 14, 2013

The Mephisto Club

The Mephisto Club by Tess Gerritsen

I am still loving Gerritsen's Rizzoli/Isles series. It is amazing how Gerritsen keeps you on edge until the end. I was questioning everyone in this one! The only complaint I had was that I felt the ending was a little abrupt. On to the next!

Fans of thrillers with strong female leads should definitely start this series.

In the Land of White Death

In the Land of White Death by Valerian Albanov

Albanov's diary tells of a disastrous 1912 Arctic expedition. The ship was frozen into the sea for a harrowing 2 years! With death on the horizon, Albanov organized a small crew to leave the ship in an attempt to reach land. He recounts a perilous, 235 mile journey over ice. The crew had to contend with blizzards, wild animals and many other obstacles in their quest for survival.

What a shocking ordeal. I struggled at times with the language, as it was originally written in Russian. But, overall, I really enjoyed this diary and was engaged in how these people managed to survive in such extreme circumstances.

I Shall Not Hate

I Shall Not Hate: A Gaza Doctor's Journey on the Road to Peace and Human Dignity by Izzeldin Abuelaish

This book made me feel very small. Some days I complain about truly asinine things. A memoir like this humbles me. In turns inspiring and heartbreaking, Dr. Abuelaish tells his story about life on the Gaza Strip.
 
In 2009, Dr. Abuelaish lost three daughters and a niece to an Israeli attack. While he was angry and grieving he also wanted to put a human face to this conflict. To show that real people, good people, are affected but these country's policies.
 
I find his dedication to a peace between Israel and Palestine both heroic and hopeful. He is the type of person that doesn't sit back and suffer injustice, instead he looks at both sides of the issue and works toward a solution.
 
I have to admit to an overall ignorance about this issue. I know the basics of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict, but I had not really delved into the reasons behind it or the consequences of this long-standing feud. It is heartbreaking. I am hopeful that a peace can come to both sides for the sake of the people.

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Random Family

Random Family: Love, Drugs, Trouble and Coming of Age in the Bronx by Adrian LeBlanc

LeBlanc researched this book for over 10 years. She uses interviews and observations for a poignant telling of life in the Bronx. A side of urban poverty is shown that most people don't take the time to consider.

I liked this book. I especially engaged with CoCo and I hope she has been able to break out of the cycle of poverty.

One aside, this book only follows a handful of people. Judgmental people may take this book and generalize it to everyone living in poverty or everyone in the Bronx. However, there are many other people that are hard working and law abiding that survive in poverty. This isn't the book that tells those stories.

I wish LeBlanc would have chosen to focus only on Jessica or only on CoCo. The volume of new people introduced throughout the book became overwhelming. I felt CoCo's story was most interesting and would have loved to read more from her point of view.

I have been so blessed in my life. I have never been challenged with the struggles of poverty and I feel strongly compassionate for those that have.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

In the Dark

In the Dark by Marliss Melton

Book #2 in the Navy Seals series. I really enjoyed the first and I liked this one, too. This is a good romantic suspense series. Lots of action and emotion!

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Fifty Shades Darker

Fifty Shades Darker by EL James

Initial verdict: The second book in this series is better than the first. The writing is still not good, but I did feel that it was planned and edited slightly better than the first. Somehow, through all the annoyances, it held my attention.

This installment actually wanders into some type of plot (gasp!). There is a crazy ex stalking Ana and Cristian goes all protective of his girl. Then there is a crazy guy stalking Ana (theme anyone?) and Christian is all alpha-male annoyed. There is jealousy and make up sex.

Yawn….

Sorry! Where was I?

The sex scenes were more plentiful in book two, though only incrementally more steamy. I actually started to SKIP OVER the sex scenes. There were just too many. They can't resist each other...on the elevator, on the boat, in the shower, pretty much wherever they are a sex scene is sure to follow. He is playing the piano in the middle of the night…and SURPRISE! They do it on the piano. (That is SO stolen from Pretty Woman!!)

My favorite thing is when women say, “But it’s a LOVE story!” I beg to differ with that pronouncement. Christian and Ana have knows each other for an entire 3 weeks now. Having sex on every available surface is not love, kiddos.

My final judgement on this one: Marginally entertaining, but terribly cliche.

I feel like I have to read the third and final book, to see how it ends. My expectations are set pretty low!
I can probably guess...Weeks 4 and 5...Christian and Ana are terribly in love. They go places, they have sex. Everyone loves the irresistible Ana and the guy from the previous book is trying to get revenge for her rejection of him. The older woman from the other book causes problems. Christian protects Ana (and controls her). She loves it. She tries to have a deep thought a few times...but can't manage to complete it. They do it some more. Christian is miraculously cured of his childhood issues with sexual control. They get married and live happily ever after. The End.

The Good Women of China

The Good Women of China: Hidden Voices by Xinran

A poignant, moving recount of women's survival stories in 20th century China. Xinran hosted a radio show in the 1980’s. Chinese women were encouraged to relate their struggles and improve their lives. She beautifully relates some of the most touching stories in this book.

One of the stories has stayed with me long after finishing the book. A woman survives an earthquake that destroys her home. She cannot find her daughter. When she finds her, the daughter is impaled in the rubble, but still alive. The Mother stays with her dying daughter for days. This story gave me nightmares and earned this Mother a permanent place in my prayers and in my heart. How horrific to watch your daughter slowly die? Just the thought makes me ill.

I recommend this one.

Monday, January 7, 2013

Four Blind Mice

Four Blind Mice by James Patterson

I have been disappointed with the last few books in the Alex Cross series. With this one, I am back on board. Still not up to the quality of the first 3 books in the series, but getting better.

I was entertained by the plot, although I didn’t think it was suspenseful or wrapped up very well. I remain on the fence in regards to finishing out this series. We will see what the next one brings!

Love in the Afternoon

I finished the Hathaway series! Lisa Kleypas is arguably the best historical romance author. I loved every book in this series. The characters are strong, the stories emotional.

This last book had a few strange parts, but overall it was amazing.

Here is the series:

Mine Till Midnight (Amelia and Cam)
Seduce Me At Sunrise (Win and Kev)
Tempt Me At Twilight (Poppy and Harry)
Married by Morning (Leo and Cat)
Love in the Afternoon (Beatrix and Christopher)

If I had to choose a favorite story I would choose either Win and Kev or Poppy and Harry.

Friday, January 4, 2013

The Wishing Trees

The Wishing Trees by John Shors


Ian, the main character is struggling to cope with the loss of his beloved wife. He has become a single father to 10-year old Mattie and must help her grieve, while grieving on his own. His wife wanted him to take Mattie on a trip across Asia. He isn't sure he wants to take the trip, but wants to honor Kate's last wish. The trip is therapeutic and they find a way to continue in a world that has been turned upside down.

John Shors wrote this novel with such beautiful language. Honestly, it was almost too painful to read at times. I could put myself in the dying Mother role, the lost little girl role and the confused Father role. I could put my own daughter in the role of losing me. Definitely not a light read, but one I treasured.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Kabul Beauty School

Kabul Beauty School: An American Woman Goes Behind the Veil by Deborah Rodriguez

Rodriguez went to Afghanistan to offer humanitarian aid in 2001. Attempting to assist utilizing her personal talents, she later returned to help develop a beauty school.

There were things I liked and didn't like.

I liked the strength of determination in these women who are overcoming unimaginable barriers to become independent. To have even the tiniest bit of freedom is a major win for them. I like the message the author portrays in doing whatever you can to assist other people in their quest for a life free from oppression.

Whenever I hear women complain, I think of women in countries like Afghanistan, who have monumental obstacles to even basic rights. This book was another reminder of how truly blessed I am.

On the flip side...I found it hard to truly like Rodriguez. Her account felt very self-centered and, in my opinion, she was careless about the larger impact of her actions. She pats herself on the back for "helping" these women. Research after the book shows that she may have done them more harm than good.

Helping these women should not have included writing a book that profits from their misery. Who gave her the right to put their personal stories to paper? She could have written a book about awareness, but that isn't what this is. I felt it was written as a self-justification.

Overall, this memoir seemed promising, but I was left with a bitter taste.

If you've read it, let me know if you had similar thoughts!

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Can We Be Good Without God

Can We Be Good Without God: Biology, Behavior and the Need to Believe by Robert Buckman

Religion intrigues me. I have spent many years reading about and researching various belief systems. As to the overall theory of belief, this book was quite interesting. It does not debate the existence of God, leaving that open to the reader. Buckman lays a good foundation on the history of religious belief, delves into the common themes of various religions and probes the theory of ethics.

I found a lot of value in Buckman's thoughts. What I enjoyed most was the ethical question of how human morality is impacted by religious belief. If you enjoy religious philosophy, add this book to your shelf.

And my personal opinion...Yes.